Sunday, March 15, 2015

"Men at some times, are masters of their fates" (Julius Caesar)

.....If police are being shot in Ferguson, the solution might be tried by giving Ferguson's police jobs elsewhere and leaving the protesters and cop killers without a police force.  I wonder what it would be like in that town without police?? I think it would be fun to see what happens. I wonder if the crime rate would go up??  Or down?? It might be worth a try.  OK. Bad idea.

.....A year or so ago, when the copyrighted musical that I wrote was violated, I sent four or five emails to Gigi Minsky (who was on the Board of Directors), seeking an answer as to why this "theft" was going on. Gigi was my friend for many years but I received no responses from her. I heard from Bob Fox yesterday, and received the following email from Bob, a former athlete and student of mine. 


.....Norman, always a pleasure talking with you. Gigi is the sister of Yvette. I introduced Yvette to her husband, Wes, over 40 years ago. Wes has been one of my closest friends because he's like you and me loving the active life playing ball, traveling and teaching. He's an accomplished magician, volleyball and basketball referee, and volunteers at the Moat in Sarasota giving nature tours. He was a science teacher in New Jersey for 35 years. I only know Gigi through my long friendship with Wes and Yvette. I see Gigi when Wes and Yvette come to Delray and Gigi joins us for dinner.I haven't spoken to Gigi about you or your situation with the play but I suspect she just didn't want to get involved. In my life as an educator and on various boards I was different. My philosophy was to always try and help and sometimes it did and sometimes I ruffled feathers. But I notice that in today's world more and more people seem to opt for passive responses when confronted with requests to get involved in anything they see that holds no benefit for them. I believe you and I are 'old school:' we see something that's wrong and we speak up and that isn't always wise in this world but maybe, just maybe, why our society might have been healthier years ago when teachers and citizens did go out of their way to help others, correct children when they were inappropriate, and work to make their communities a safer and more secure environment. You are a special guy, a fighter, a man with standards of personal excellence, and many of us have drawn strength from your example. Thanks and remember, I told you many of my classmates at our 50th reunion five years ago, upon hearing of my contact with you, went out of their way to tell me to say hello to you because you are remembered and appreciated for your teaching, coaching and leadership example. Bob


.....Like many other persons, (like Bob has claimed about me) I would like to leave a legacy so my great great grandchildren would know about me, and so I've had several different "careers" that I really really wanted.  I wanted to be a Naval Aerial Gunner in WWII--and I did that. I wanted to get a Ph.D.,--and I did that. I wanted to teach English Literature and Linguistics--and I did that for 30 years. I wanted to run a marathon--and I did that. I wanted to get on the stage and perform--and I did that.  I wanted to be a soccer coach--and I did that.  I wanted to write an autobiography--and I did that.  And I wanted to take off for a year and travel around the world--and I did that. And if this is the legacy I leave, so be it.  Who else has done it?
 

.....As you may know, today (3/15/2015) is the Ides of March, the day, in 44BC that Julius Caesar, the dictator of Rome, was assassinated primarily by dudes named Cassius and Brutus. Although many other Senators also got in a stab, but Casca was first to his discredit. Altogether, it is said that he was stabbed 23 times, which was somewhat more than was needed.  Marc Anthony retrieved his body.  Caesar need not complain about this event--he was warned by a "seer" not to go to the Roman Capital that day.  Perhaps we all ought to heed this advice.
 

6 comments:

  1. ruth.grimsley@virgin.netMarch 15, 2015 at 6:23 PM

    Such a lot of ambitions fulfilled, dear Baron - how wonderful!
    I think the point of the multiplicity of Caesar's assailants was to demonstrate that the assassination was an act of the mass of people - a blow for democracy against tyranny. It didn't work out like that, certainly, but that was the idea - or "Ides-ea!"
    No-one is celebrating the Ides here, but today is Mothers Day, and two of my children brought me cards, chocs and flowers. My eldest, the surgeon, was too busy to recognize the occasion: but that's a common problem for parents of big medics, I gather.
    Around now, the country also informally celebrates St Patrick's Day. St P. is the patron saint of Ireland, but in England the day and about the following week constitute an excuse to drink rather a lot of Guinness (Irish porter.) However, my younger son's a folk musician, so the week brings him lots of St P. gigs, good for business you might say! Say what you like about the Irish, they are always up for a bit of jolly live music. In fact, when I go to Lanzarote, the expat Irish community there give one as good - and at the same time as innocent and unthreatening - a time as can be had anywhere. Love it!
    What a lovely letter from Bob Fox. And he's right, of course.
    I've not been following the events in Ferguson closely, so I don't know what the exact problems were, let alone how they might be solved: but I can assure you that an unpoliced society is a bad idea. Populations are not homogenous, and ALWAYS it's the weakest and most innocent who suffer the worst. If there are problems between police and population, they must be tackled bit by bit. It's not a trendy solution or necessarily a wonderful or easy or hopeful one, but it's all there is.
    Much love, cousin Ruth

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  2. ruth.grimsley@virgin.netMarch 15, 2015 at 6:39 PM

    OK, I've now read up about the events in Ferguson. Yes, I agree that shooting police officers is a bad way of protesting. Wrong in itself, and also ineffective and even counter-productive. But mainly plain wrong. However, if the police officer who shot the burglary suspect was not put to cross-examination, justice might have been done, but it hasn't been seen to be done. Still - with regard to the death of the black man, I always taught my children: "If you're up to no good, and things work out even worse than you deserve, no-one's going to want to know, and I'M not going to want to know either." Pity more parents don't say this to their children. I have also taught my children what to do and say if and when cops turn up on any scene: gaze adoringly, and say fervently: "Officer: thank God you've arrived!" Works like a charm. Cuzzin Ruth

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  3. Bob makes some very good points in his letter. I always speak up when I observe an injustice, even if it's minor in the great scheme of things. This does have negative consequences at times, but so be it.

    However, many people are more concerned with how they are viewed by others than relating the truth. In other words, if he is a witness to something, but testifying what he saw could make someone upset with him, he will opt for "forgetfulness" rather than doing what is right and simply stating what he saw. I have a name for this behavior, but I won't write it here, because it points to a particular person who is beloved by everyone who knows him, but can never be relied on to have your back (he's not anyone who reads this blog). Being beloved often trumps being noble.

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    1. I'm glad that you always speak up when you observe an injustice, and yet you advised me not to do anything about the theft of my musical manuscript which they did what they wanted with it. I know you had some concern about me, but I could not let that injustice go with what was rightfully mine. So I sued and won. I'm a warrior and I got that from my father. You also write that "Being beloved often trumps being noble" Of course there is some truth in what you say, but in my case I couldn't care less about being beloved by those "friends". I have plenty of belovedness from former students--and my family. Men at times are masters of their fates.

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  4. The situation I was referring to (and I believe Bob's comment was along these lines) is speaking up when one sees an injustice done *to another person*. He specifically mentioned that these days it's difficult to get someone to do so, if standing up for someone else "holds no benefit for them."

    Standing up for yourself is related, but it's a different case, since what you did DID have a benefit for you. And when I refer to being beloved is more important to some people than doing the right thing -- that also was not about you.

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    1. I never thought your comment was about me. I took no umbrage about it.

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