Saturday, December 3, 2011

"Who can control his fate?" (Othello)

.....Why does this happen?  Is there some mysterious force at work attempting to send me a message--which, as yet, I haven't interpreted. We were supposed to have brunch with "Eliza" and Dick, and then go on a boat ride on the Inter-Coastal along with about 30 other people from the Ping Pong Club today; but we couldn't make it.  Obviously, and predictably I fell from the scooter in the parking lot; of course the scooter fell mostly on me and the pebbles, tearing the skin from my right elbow, both knees, and my right ankle--which at the moment appeared to be fractured, or broken.  
.....Of course, since I have been taking Coumadin for A-Fib, I spewed blood all over my sandals and over the pristine ground.  Fortunately, a young lady jogger appeared and proceeded to call 911, which number I detest.  When the medics arrived in their beautiful red truck, neighbors appeared--almost like osmosis--the last thing that I wanted--to be gawked at.  Shortly thereafter I was loaded onto a gurney, then into an ambulance, and then to the ER of the local hospital where I was expeditiously bandaged like a mummy.  Both knees, right elbow, and right ankle--which took six staples and four stitches to close up.  I needed that right foot to step on and off curbs, and in and out of cars. 


.....I can't continue this for a few days--until the pain subsides to the point where I can remember what it is I want to say; but keep checking.  


     ok Just to clarify, I did not say that I broke my ankle. It was very painful and what I wrote was that it appeared to me that there was a break there, but when I got to the hospital, they cleaned the blood from my knees and my right foot & my elbow, but x-rays showed no break.  However, there was a deep gash on the foot which required stitches and staples. They will be there for a few weeks before they can be removed.  (The stitches and staples, Joel, not the ankle.)






























8 comments:

  1. ruth.grimsley@virgin.netDecember 3, 2011 at 6:22 PM

    Poor Baron! You have all the luck, don't you. Get well soon!! Cuzzin Ruth

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  2. Update on the condition of Doc/Baron/Emperor. Fortunately, nothing is broken. THE MAN is showing his usual uncomplaining courage despite great pain.

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  3. ruth.grimsley@virgin.netDecember 7, 2011 at 10:51 PM

    Dear Baron - it's five days since you posted. Are you getting any better? Hope so! Much love, Cuzzin Ruth xxxx

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  4. If Rhoda were not so ill, this last accident would not have occurred. Inclines are dangerous for those with balance issues and her support would have saved our beloved Doc/Dad/Emperor from falling.

    There is nothing more valuable than a loving wife. I do not like friends and family to know when I am having a "procedure," but darling Hindy somehow found out and insisted on going to Columbia Presbyterian with me.

    I expected that she would go home, but in spite of my insistence, she stayed overnight, getting what rest she could on chairs. During the night she checked with the nurses several times and visited me although that was against protocol.

    Blessed is he who has such a mate. If Rhoda had not been ill, she doubtless would have saved our hero from his latest accident. Baron, you must be more careful about where you put your body in general, and your feet in particular.

    We who care for you (especially your children) suffer also, so please take care. You should have many more years of good living ahead of you, and we will enjoy every day that you do.

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  5. Ellin Bliss Jaeger (North Shore '58)December 10, 2011 at 10:16 PM

    Waiting for an update and hope pain subsiding and healing taking place.

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  6. ruth.grimsley@virgin.netDecember 10, 2011 at 11:24 PM

    Phil - I also have defied protocol, when my dear late father was dying in hospital. I insisted on staying with him all the time. The staff said that my being there would cause problems for me if there were a fire, as I wasn't supposed to be there, and that they would ask if I could. I said: "There is no need to ASK. Just TELL them I'm here, and then they'll know to rescue me if there is a fire." I carried my point, and stayed with him at all times, even being there when he died. I'm glad I was able to cut through this stultifying "'elf 'n' safety" rubbish. My father died with his jaw open, and it was I and not some stranger who closed it for him. It was totally fitting that a loving daughter was there to do that. If I'd listened to grumblings about protocol, I'd never have been able to perform that last service for him.

    In the meantime: "Wherefore all this wormy circumstance?" - John Keats, "Isabella, or the Pot of Basil" BARON: please tell us how you are faring!!

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    Posted by Red Baron at 10:44 AM
    6 comments:

    ruth.grimsley@virgin.net said...
    Poor Baron! You have all the luck, don't you. Get well soon!! Cuzzin Ruth
    December 3, 2011 6:22 PM
    Phil B. said...
    Update on the condition of Doc/Baron/Emperor. Fortunately, nothing is broken. THE MAN is showing his usual uncomplaining courage despite great pain.
    December 4, 2011 9:51 PM
    ruth.grimsley@virgin.net said...
    Dear Baron - it's five days since you posted. Are you getting any better? Hope so! Much love, Cuzzin Ruth xxxx
    December 7, 2011 10:51 PM
    Phil B. said...
    If Rhoda were not so ill, this last accident would not have occurred. Inclines are dangerous for those with balance issues and her support would have saved our beloved Doc/Dad/Emperor from falling.

    There is nothing more valuable than a loving wife. I do not like friends and family to know when I am having a "procedure," but darling Hindy somehow found out and insisted on going to Columbia Presbyterian with me.

    I expected that she would go home, but in spite of my insistence, she stayed overnight, getting what rest she could on chairs. During the night she checked with the nurses several times and visited me although that was against protocol.

    Blessed is he who has such a mate. If Rhoda had not been ill, she doubtless would have saved our hero from his latest accident. Baron, you must be more careful about where you put your body in general, and your feet in particular.

    We who care for you (especially your children) suffer also, so please take care. You should have many more years of good living ahead of you, and we will enjoy every day that you do.
    December 9, 2011 6:32 PM
    Ellin Bliss Jaeger (North Shore '58) said...
    Waiting for an update and hope pain subsiding and healing taking place.
    December 10, 2011 10:16 PM
    ruth.grimsley@virgin.net said...
    Phil - I also have defied protocol, when my dear late father was dying in hospital. I insisted on staying with him all the time. The staff said that my being there would cause problems for me if there were a fire, as I wasn't supposed to be there, and that they would ask if I could. I said: "There is no need to ASK. Just TELL them I'm here, and then they'll know to rescue me if there is a fire." I carried my point, and stayed with him at all times, even being there when he died. I'm glad I was able to cut through this stultifying "'elf 'n' safety" rubbish. My father died with his jaw open, and it was I and not some stranger who closed it for him. It was totally fitting that a loving daughter was there to do that. If I'd listened to grumblings about protocol, I'd never have been able to perform that last service for him.

    In the meantime: "Wherefore all this wormy circumstance?" - John Keats, "Isabella, or the Pot of Basil" BARON: please tell us how you are faring!!
    Dece

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  8. A while back, you asked Cuz Ruth and me, "What is this thing called love?"

    Love is wanting to be with another person as much as possible, in good times and bad. I'm not just talking; I've been there.

    If she is in pain, your greatest pleasure is to alleviate whatever is wrong. If she is very ill, you are grateful for every moment that God spares her.

    "Love" as in, "I love you," is often used as a ploy to gain some advantage, such as sex, money, or comfort. The real thing is quite rare, imo.

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