Sunday, June 5, 2011

"The patient dies while the physician sleeps" (Shakespeare)

.....I'm feeling a bit better today & in a better mood; we had visitors.  My sister, Betty, my brother-in-law, Mickey, and my nephew, "Z" (for Zaldor nee Jeffrey).  Z was of great help in clearing out all my record albums...and there were a lot of them.  He will probably try to sell them at a record store.  His work was part of a general overhaul of our apartment.  Although the music was once a great part of my life, it's been a very long time since I played them--since we played them, so why clutter up the house?  Z also hung a picture over our bed which I had knocked down in my sleep.  Of course it fell on Rhoda and me, but it did no damage--although it is large, it is very light.  My sister also brought me a couple of black and white cookies which I shall devour tonight before I go to bed. Tomorrow, I again go through the oxygen treatment.  I still don't know if it will do any good.
..... The wound care nurse came today in order to dress my wounds (I've three of them).  However, before she did that chore, she had me lie down in bed so that she could check out my groin in order to see why there was pain there.  However, unexpectedly, she pulled down my shorts and my underwear and got a first row orchestra seat of all that I hold dear.  This action made me speechless, a rare condition for the Baron.  After feeling around my groin, and elsewhere, she found nothing to indicate why I have pain there.  Finally, she bandaged my wounds and when she left, I took my walker and Rhoda and I went out to Applebees for dinner.  Tomorrow afternoon, we are making an appointment to see our primary care doctor.  Perhaps he'll be able to find the source of the pain I am having.

.....On the 24th of this month Rho is going up to New York to see Ilana graduating from high school.  I had bought two tickets awhile ago, but I will not be able to join her.  Right now Rhoda is down to a frazzle, what with her having to take care of me and my needs, and the rest of her life that is free.  Right now she has no life of her own.  While she is in New York, she wants to have someone stay with me.  I also have an alarm button which I wear around my neck in case I fall or something while she's away.  And if I press the button, the medics will show up.  All of these things are costly, and since I'm your dad, and I am in need, and since you cannot come to help, some financial assistance will be welcomed.  

9 comments:

  1. Pleased to note some improvement since your last post. At that time you were unable to walk even with your walker. In this post, you were able to get to Applebaum's. That is progress.

    Having some knowledge of what you are going through, 24/7, my sympathies, as always, are totally with you.

    If anyone can beat these maladies it is you, the Mighty Baron, unconquerable and positively oriented. Many love you, and all of them are pulling for you to have a nice day every day.

    Go forth and do so!

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  2. NEVER give up. NEVER. There is always a way out, and it is your job, whether you accept it or not, to find it.

    Maybe the oxygen treatments will help. If not, something else will. You are too young and too vital to be devastated by illness.

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  3. We all know what sacrifices Rhoda Ross has made to take care of the Baron. However, to say that she has no life of her own may miss the point. When you love someone who is ill, your life is based on service to that person which you do without complaint.

    Some of us have been through crises that lasted many years and required 24/7 care, without begrudging a minute of the time and energy spent.

    Baron, I am sure that Rhoda is pleased to be able to make your life easier. And, knowing you, I am sure that you do as much as you can for yourself.

    God bless all the Rosses in this ordeal. If you all hang tough, better days may be coming. I'd settle for the status quo because you are currently alive and your mind is still in one piece. NEVER GIVE UP.

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  4. Your comments and your interest in my development are absolutely appreciated.

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  5. ruth.grimsley@virgin.netJune 9, 2011 at 3:09 AM

    Yes, Baron, Phil is right. If you really love someone, there is no conflict between duty and inclination. Or that was my experience anyway, when my dear father was dying. Much love, and strength to carry on, to both you and Rh. Cuzzin Ruth

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  6. Cuz Ruth, the Doc is blessed to have you as a relative.

    And I would like to have the Baron for a friend for many more years. Therefore, Doc, you must continue to fight the good fight and to stand on your own two feet (literally and figuratively) as much as possible. God bless all the Rosses in this difficult time.

    Fortunately, Norman, you have a sweet nature and are not bitter. That helps make life beautiful for you and those around you.

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  7. ruth.grimsley@virgin.netJune 13, 2011 at 9:20 PM

    Phil - thank you so much, and I think the Baron is likewise blessed to have you as a friend. Altogether now:-

    "We belong to a Mutual
    Admiration
    Society!"

    And of course, it goes without saying, Baron, that we are both blessed to have you! Cuzzin Ruth

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  8. And there are so many other admirers of the Baron in addition to us which is substantive evidence that good taste still lives. Fly on, Red One, and clear the skies of evil.

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  9. Good news for Baron lovers. The Great Man now has an aide, a pretty, tall, gracious woman, who will make his life easier. She can drive him to doctors, oxygen treatments, and other medical appointments, and can also keep him company while Rhoda does what she must do.

    Thanks to the Ross siblings for helping to pay for the aide. Baron, things are looking up. Next step forward--please be kind enough to heal so that your physical life is more pleasant.

    NEVER GIVE UP! But you knew that already.

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